Hard to change

I think by now, most of us are aware of the fact that ‘things change’. But if we know that, than why does it still take us by surprise every time? Shouldn’t we be use to this feeling that change is evitable and accept it by now? But no matter how aware of this we are, I don’t think we will ever be ready to face change. Whether we admit it or not, all of us hate it, especially when it seems like we are robbed of the only things that made us happy and we were just hopeless to stop it from happening.

Maybe it’s the fact that none of us want to believe it. None of us want to believe that our best friends could one day no longer be a part of our lives. That the relationships we have with people that we care about could turn into one that we only have with strangers. Maybe we’re too focus on holding on to everything, that we don’t realize that our worlds can turn upside down in any second.

In the course of our lives, we will face a million changes. The funny thing about it, without changes in our lives, we wouldn’t meet some of the great people that we have. We wouldn’t of ended up going forward in our lives and discovering who we truly are. It’s okay to be afraid of change, I know I am. But looking back at it all, I realize that the memories I have are permanently in place - and sometimes things changing is a way of finding something beautiful.